I prefer the window seat whenever I fly, because the view is spectacular! Everything appears so peaceful. Mountain ranges are picturesque. Cities appear slow, calm and quite. Everything seems to be in order. From 30,000 feet above, things look pretty good.
This peaceful view, however, hides the reality the conditions below. Frigid winter temperatures, scorching summer heat, or a congested, noisy city aren’t really noticeable when viewed at in climate controlled comfort at 30,000 feet.
It’s not until we get up close to the environment that we realize things are markedly different thank they first appeared.
I think it’s like that with people as well. From a distance, people often appear to be free of difficulty or challenges in their life. Yet it’s not until we get close up and connect with someone that we realize they are facing challenges, concerns or difficulties that aren’t easily seen from a distance.
This thought reminds me that most people are likely struggling with, worried about, or concerned with something that’s not visible to us. It also reminds me that I would do well to approach others with grace and, when appropriate, the willingness to be close up.