I can’t wait for bright, clear, sunny days to become the norm! After a long gray fall and winter in the Pacific Northwest, most everyone here is eager for the sun to make an extended appearance.
The clear days of late spring and summer in Oregon are extremely beautiful. I think it’s the anticipation of their arrival that keep people going through the gray and rain. At least it is for me.
I find life more interesting and exciting when I have something in the future to look forward to. Whether it’s an upcoming trip or event, a scheduled connection with others or the changing of the seasons and the activities each one brings, the anticipation of these events enhances my enjoyment of them.
Anticipation is also a great positive motivator. For example, if you’re earning a degree or learning to play a musical instrument, there will be times when your progress feels small or slow. This is where you can get frustrated and consider giving up. However, if you can anticipate the excitement of receiving your diploma or being able to skillfully play that musical instrument, you’ll be much more likely to successfully navigate through your frustration and move on toward completing what you’ve set out to do.
So what are you positively anticipating in your not-too-distant future? What outcome can you see in your mind that you haven’t attainted yet? If the answer is “nothing”, begin thinking of something you’d like to do or achieve and take steps to make it happen, all the while keeping the anticipation of its arrival or completion in your mind.
Positive anticipation is a pulling force. It pulls us in the direction we want to go and keeps us on track, even when the path ahead feels gray and rainy. Our anticipation reminds us that sunnier days are just ahead.