This week my wife and I received and unexpected gift. The gift was rather small, it didn’t cost much, and wasn’t terribly difficult to create. However, it made my day and brightened my entire week. The unexpected gift we received was a hand written note from a friend.
Our friend Kathy had taken the time to write a note to express her gratitude and thanks for our friendship and continued assistance with an annual project she coordinates. As a fellow letter-writer, I could really appreciate her effort which included:
- Selecting a card
- Writing her thoughts out by hand
- Addressing the envelope and putting a stamp on it
- Remembering drop it in the mailbox
There is no doubt it would have been much easier, faster, and cost next to nothing for Kathy to send her thoughts to us in an email instead. I would have appreciated the email as well, but there was something special about finding the note amidst the denizens that usually haunt our mailbox, namely advertisements and bills. In the midst of all the noise and messages that was competing for my attention that day, Kathy’s hand written note really stood out.
It’s interesting to me that with all the technology we have to communicate quicker and with more people, something as “retro” and “old school” as a hand written note, can really cause the sender to stand out. The reason, I believe, is because not many people take the time to send hand written notes anymore.
The next time you have an opportunity to express thanks or appreciation to someone, try dropping them a hand written note in the mailbox. Not only will you brighten the other person’s day with an unexpected gift, you’ll stand out as well.