Good health, education, family, relationships, a growing faith, personal development, financial security, social connections. Most of us would agree that these are important thing, but how can we tell if we truly believe these things are important? We can tell by whether or not we’re willing to commit our resources to them.
If we say good health is important, yet we don’t set aside time to regularly exercise, then how important is good health to us… really? Suppose we say saving for the future is important, but we don’t put any of our money in a retirement vehicle. Our actions would seem to contradict what our mouth is saying. We may also believe that our marriage, or other significant relationship, is extremely important, while at the same time failing to give this relationship our time and best effort. Is it then, really that important to us?
Where there is a lack of committed resources, there is a lack of importance.
Just because we don’t commit our resources doesn’t mean these things are no longer important.
They still are. Our lack of committed resources only underscores that they are not important to us.
What’s important to you? Are you committing your resources to it? In reality, that will be a significant indicator of how important you think it is.
Earlier this week I was on a flight from Portland Oregon on a cloudy February morning. Shortly after takeoff we entered the gray clouds above, losing visual contact with the ground below. As we were enveloped by the clouds, a much anticipated change stated to occur.
The clouds surrounding the aircraft transitioned from dark gray to white with ever increasing brightness. Then, in a moment of face-warming, eye-squinting brilliance, we emerged atop the cloud layer and into the bright blue sun-filled sky. I smiled.
There’s something about a sunny blue skin in the morning that charges me up and gets me excited for the day ahead. This particular morning it was especially enjoyable, due to the lack of sunny mornings in western Oregon this winter.
I’m eagerly anticipating the sunny mornings of late spring, summer and early fall. The fact that they are not the norm around here for a significant part of the year makes them unique. Add to that the positive impact they have on me and they suddenly become something of great value. For this reason I feel they should be taken advantage of and not taken for granted. For me, sunny mornings should not be wasted.
What are some positive things you enjoy that you may not get to experience as often as you might like? Whether it’s fresh seasonal fruit, time with certain people, time away from life’s normal routine, or engaging in a seasonal activity, be on the lookout for their occurrence and plan to take advantage of them when they present themselves.
They are precious and not to be wasted.
A piano will just sit there and let you bang away at the keys and make a lot of noise, or allow you to use it to product beautiful music. In fact, it’s like that with every musical instrument. The instrument doesn’t care what you do to it. The difference is the musician who approaches the instrument.
The quality of music an instrument will yield is based solely on how the musician approaches the instrument, with regard to experience, skill, desire, passion, and attitude. The more of these qualities the musician approaches the instrument with, the better the quality of music the instrument will return and, in the long run, the better the musician will become.
I think it’s a lot like that with life. A significant portion of what we receive from life is largely dependent on how we are approaching life. Imagine how different a person’s life would be if they chose to approach their life with:
- Eagerness to learn
- A positive attitude
- An expectation of good things to come
- A bent toward action
- A mindset of joy, abundance, and love.
Versus an approaching life with:
- An expectation of bad things to come
- A mindset of pessimism, and fear
So what are you receiving from life on a regular basis? Are you receiving beautiful music or harsh disorderly noise?
If you don’t like what you’re receiving from life, consider changing your approach.