Would you ever volunteer to spend several years of your life in prison? Think about that. Would you voluntarily decide to sacrifice, say, 10 or more years of your current life for that of a prison inmate? My answer to that question is, “Are you kidding me?! Who in their right mind would do something as stupid as that?!” However, I think that every day, many people voluntarily send themselves to a prison of frustration, despair and under achievement. And it’s not a judge, jury, or court that sentences people to this prison. What sends most people to the prison I describe is the conviction of their own thinking.
Just this week, I was talking with someone who was telling me how bad everything in their life was going. During our conversation, they unknowingly gave me glimpses into their thinking through the language they chose to describe their situation. It was negative and self-defeating and stripped them of any ability to change their current situation. Their thinking had made them hopeless, and the more hopeless they became, the further their thinking deteriorated.
I left that conversation frustrated, because I knew that, although their situation was challenging, it wasn’t as insurmountable as their thinking made it out to be. With some minor changes to their thinking, they could easily attain a more hopeful outlook, and even restore a degree of joy about life again. Instead, they chose to extend the sentence they have placed on themselves by the thinking they continued to employ.
When the conversation was over, I felt like I had just left a prison after visiting an incarcerated inmate. It was a heavy feeling, knowing that they could begin to free themselves from their self-imposed sentence by simply changing their thinking, but realizing that that wasn’t a choice they were going to make.
Is there any area in your life where you’ve sentenced yourself through the court of your own thinking? What negative thoughts about people, situations, or circumstances are affecting you outlook in a negative way? Give some thought to these questions this week. When you discover an area where your thinking is imprisoning you, cause something to happen by determining alternative ways of thinking about the situation that improves your outlook and restores hope and confidence in the future. (If you need a source to help you change your thinking for the better, I’d recommend reading the book of Proverbs. It is filled with great wisdom and principles that will have a profound impact on your thinking.)
Don’t spend another day in a prison of your own negative thinking. Decide today to improve your thinking and set yourself free.