“The entire world, with one tiny exception, is made up of other people.”
This is such a true statement. If you’ve ever tried to cause something to happen that required the assistance of others, you’ve most assuredly run into this reality.
This quote reminds me that, while we all have my own unique goals, agendas, mindset and world view, so does everyone else on the planet. I think it important for us to remember that to each person, their goals and agendas are the most important ones to them. Any agenda I have, to them, is secondary to their own. That makes sense right? Most folks are concerned for other people, but their primary concern is for themselves.
This can be challenging when we need the assistance of others. How do we get assistance from someone who has focus and priorities that are different from our own? I think Zig Ziglar’s signature saying is a great guide: “You can get everything you want if you just help enough other people get what they want.” If we need help from someone who is busy with their own priorities, why don’t we offer to help them first? Before seeking assistance from them, what if we first offered assistance to them?
I know, you’re thinking, “They’ll just take my help and not help me in return.” It’s possible. But I think we’d be surprised how often people are willing to help you when you first offered to help them.
Let’s look for opportunities to help others get what they want. Not as a way of being manipulative in order to get our way, but as a way of conveying to others that we understand how important their goals and agendas are to them.