“When you promise a kid something, you’d better do it. They take it seriously.” ~Unknown
When I came across this quote recently, I was reminded of a nephew of ours. Last year when my wife and I went to visit him and his family, he mentioned a specific hike that he’d like to do the next time we came to town. I told him that next time we were in town, we would do the hike together.
We’ll be going to visit him this summer and I’m already planning on doing this hike with him. It’s going to be a fun time!
It’s not just kids that notice when we don’t keep our word. Adults notice too.
Making promises or committing to something is easy. Following through on those promises requires more from us than mere words. It requires not only action, but a mindset that our words have value and that when we commit to something we’ll follow through. To do so, or not, says something about our word and our character.
Let’s be aware of the promises we make. If we make a promise, to a child or another adult, let’s commit to following through. Otherwise, refrain from making promises we know we won’t keep.
“You can’t give blame until you take responsibility” ~ Craig Groeschel; Pastor, Life.Church
No one likes looking foolish, stupid, or like a failure. I think this is the primary reason people have a tendency to blame others or circumstances when something we’re responsible for doesn’t go as planned.
In an effort to avoid looking bad in front of others, we almost automatically seek to place the blame someplace, any place, other than on us. The paradox is that when we always place blame instead of taking responsibility, we actually do look bad in front of others, which is the very thing we’re trying to avoid.
What if the next time something we’re in charge of goes sideways, instead of choosing to place blame, we choose instead to not only take responsibility for the situation, but for its resolution as well?
From a leadership standpoint, this is the right thing to do. When we take responsibility for our results we are communicating to others that we care about the quality of our work, about our contribution, and that we can be counted on to follow through to a successful completion.
No one has ever looked foolish doing that.