Last week we were on vacation in Denali National Park. While the landscape and wildlife were spectacular, what stood out most to me was how easy it was to start a conversation and connect with other people.
Whether it was on the park bus or standing in line somewhere, it was so easy to start up a conversation with people by simply asking a question like:
- Did you see any wildlife in the park today?
- How long have you been in Alaska?
- How long will you be in Alaska?
- Where are you from?
- What are you going to see next?
It was equally easy to start conversations with folks based on a sports team, a geographic location, or some other familiar identifier on a person’s clothing. (“Go Packers!” seems to be a good conversation starter with people wearing Green Bay gear.)
It got me wondering why we don’t start conversations with people around us when we’re not on vacation. When I look at my own life, it seems easy to avoid connecting with those around me, even though there are so many of the same conversation starters in everyday life.
Why not start initiating conversations with people around us, even when we’re not on vacation? We might be surprised with you many interesting and friendly people we cross paths with each day.
As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.
~Proverbs 27:17 (NIV)
I had 2 opportunities this week to talk with people who were as excited as I was about a common topic. The first opportunity centered on a software tool called QlikView. The other was around the area of personal development.
In both cases, there was an excitement as we discussed our common interest. Ideas were shared, questions were asked and answered, problems and setbacks were discussed, and suggestions for improvement were provided. I loved the exchanged because I felt like I was not only heard, but I got to give value to the other people, as well as receiving value from them in return. Those exchanges were highlights of my week.
It reminds me how important it is to spend time with people who are on the same path as me, in an area where I want to improve. Some of the benefits of doing so include:
- Being exposed to new thoughts, concepts, and ideas
- Deepening your understanding of the topic
- Sharing what you’ve learned with others
- Being able to ask questions to someone who can potentially help you or point you in the right direction
- Making connections with people who share a common interest
- Increasing your network
- Hearing what other people are working on, struggling with, or discovering in the same area as you
- Feeling like you’re on a journey with others instead of being isolated and traveling alone
Those conversations this week were very rewarding, and left me wanting more interactions just like those. I’ll certainly be looking for similar opportunities, only at a higher frequency per week.
Be on the lookout starting today for opportunities to connect with others around a common interest. Not only will you have fun discussing it with someone else, you just may have the knowledge and experience someone else needs to hear in order to get unstuck.