This week I saw the following statement on someone’s T-shirt: “Enjoy it because it’s happening now”.
I love this timely reminder!
With the beginning of a new year, it’s common to focus on goals and what we plan on doing in the upcoming weeks and months of 2017. While looking ahead and planning are indeed both important endeavors, it’s equally important that they not occur at the expense of enjoying the good things we’re experiencing in the present moment.
It seems to me that we create our history, our memories, our relationships, and even cement our legacies by how we choose handle what’s happening to us in each moment.
What kind of memories are we creating when we’re overly focused on the future? What kind of relationships are we creating when we’re too distracted slow down and connect with the people we love and care about? How will we be remembered by the people with whom we have the pleasure of crossing paths with? Will they feel like we were looking over their shoulders to see what was next, or will they feel like we actually cared about and were interested in them?
Once gone, a present moment cannot be recaptured. We can’t go back and extract enjoyment we left on the table from a moment that has already passed. We must be mindful to enjoy what’s happening right now.