This week’s post is simple: If you need to ask someone for forgiveness, do it immediately. I had a choice to do that this week.
This week, a great friend of mine pointed out a behavior to me that falls well below my personal standards. It wasn’t terribly easy to hear, but I could recognize the truth in what he said. As I pondered his words later that day, I got the Holy Spirit prompting that I needed to ask this friend for forgiveness.
We have a choice when we know we need to ask for forgiveness. We can either do it (obey the prompting of the Holy Spirit for Jesus followers) or make excuses why we don’t need to seek forgiveness. In these situations, our excuses not to seek forgiveness are usually just lame excused to protect our pride.
I am blessed that my friend gave me forgiveness. When I think about it, had I instead chosen to protect my pride (which is easy for me to do!), it could have cost me a dear friend. In my book, that was far too high a price to pay.
I tell you that to encourage you to seek forgiveness when you know it’s what you need to do, so that you don’t wind up making a relationally costly mistake.
The amount of information we’re confronted with every day is amazing. So many sources, figures, and organizations are vying to influence our thinking and shape our beliefs. Therefore, it is imperative, in the midst of all this information, that we continually scrutinize what we hear by asking ourselves, “Is this true?”.
Our brain is the greatest super computers ever designed, and each of us is blessed to be in possession of one, free and clear. With it, we can receive input, think critically about that input, and discern whether or not it’s true. With this brain we can question, investigate, explore, and again, discern truth. In my opinion, since we are in possession of such a remarkable and powerful tool as our brains, it is incumbent on us to use them.
Why would we allow someone else to spoon feed us their own thoughts and ideas without engaging our brains in some critical thinking to determine whether or not what they’re saying is actually true? Why should we be so quick to disengage our own super computer brains in favor allowing someone else to “program”, if not poison them, with untruths? To me, that seems not only irresponsible, but potentially dangerous. Taken to it’s extreme, as we’ve seen in the US this week, it can even be criminal.
Let’s make sure that we’re taking full advantage of the brains we’ve been blessed with. Let’s use them to wisely discern the information we’re bombarded with, to ensure that our actions and beliefs are indeed based on truth.