This week’s post is primarily a reminder for me to put into action what I learn.
During my electric bass lesson this week, I learned a new concept that appears to have some very practical application when I play on our worship team at church. Now that I’ve gained this new knowledge, I have a choice: I can either apply it, or forget it.
It seems like such a silly choice, doesn’t it? “Of course, I’ll apply it!” is the response I tell myself. However, I am surprised how often a good intention to apply newly acquired knowledge can be tossed aside when we get busy, or in some cases, just plain lazy.
It takes effort to apply a new skill, yet it also takes effort to learn a new skill as well. If I’m going to put forth the effort to learn something new, I need to follow through with the effort to apply that knowledge as well. Otherwise, I’m just wasting my time.
So, let’s get out there (still talking to myself here, but feel free to follow along, if this is applicable to you) and start putting our knowledge into action. New levels await!
My wife and I just got back from a week-long trip to Boston. We went with some friends to explore the town and learn more about ta place none of us had ever spent much time, but that all of us were eager to visit.
What always strikes me when we go on a trip or adventure is how it would never have occurred without some prior planning and forethought. Think about it, you can have an adventure in mind, but without taking the steps to cause it to happen, it will remain an unfulfilled dream. Our action is what transforms a dream into reality.
How cool that in order for much of our dreams to be realized, we simply need to put forth the effort required to bring them about. The other side of that coin is that it is sad that we are often the ones standing in the way of our dreams, simply because we fail to take action.
What adventure are you dreaming of? Take steps today to begin causing the dreams you have to happen. Your future self will thank you for the memories
This week, I had an interaction with someone where I could have behaved better than I did. What I knew I needed to do was offer an apology. Here’s the thing, when we know we need to make an apology: we can come up with all sorts of reasons not to.
It’s no different for me either. In fact, I was running through several reasons why I didn’t need to make the apology. My lame excused ranged from, “They probably don’t even remember the incident” to “I’ve got other things I need to be doing” to every other excuse in between. I told you they were lame.
In the end, I made the apology before my workday started. I decided it was, indeed, important and needed to be done. The person who I apologized to was gracious and said that they appreciated it.
All that to say, if you owe someone an apology, make it. Don’t wait, or put it off, or think of reasons to keep from doing it, because the person you owe the apology to deserves it.
One of my favorite books in the Bible is James. What I love most about it is that it is filled with hard-hitting, non-sugar-coated truth. My favorite verse in this book is 1:22 where the author states, “Don’t merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says”. This is a verse I often read as if James was speaking these words directly to me.
It’s easy to gain knowledge about how we SHOULD be behaving. It’s quite another thing to take the knowledge we gain, and parlay it into action. What good does it do to gain a bunch of knowledge that is beneficial to us, yet fail to put that knowledge into action? If we spend a significant period of time (months, years, decades, a lifetime) we’ll wind up being nothing more than a bunch of over-educated under-achievers.
Here’s a good question for all of us: Is there some knowledge that I have that I need to put into action in order to see positive results? If the answer is, “Yes” (which I’m sure it is for most of us), then take a small step today to begin putting that knowledge into action. Because there’s a big difference between knowing and doing. Knowing = knowledge. Doing = results.
We just had the opener for our garage door replaced, and I’m so grateful to the person who came out and installed it for us.
I’m not the handiest guy in the world. Don’t get me wrong, there are some things I’m really good at, but installing stuff, like a garage door opener, is not one of them. That’s why I’m grateful for the skills of others, and their willingness to offer those skills, be it in the market place, or out of their own generosity.
It reminds me that each of us have skills that we can offer others. The skills we have may not seem like much to us, but to those who don’t have those skills, they’re valuable. Therefore, since we all rely on the skills of others (when our skill level falls short) we should be willing to offer the skills we have to others.
It’s a great way to thank those who have offered their skills to help us.
“Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.” ~Dr. Seuss
I came across this quote last week and it’s such a great reminder about perspective and also about how to handle ending. Since endings are a part of every life, it feels that this quote from Dr. Seuss is applicable for all of us.
There are a number of things that come to an end:
- A season of life
- An event
- A place we enjoy visiting
- A business we enjoy frequenting
- A friendship
- A life
To be clear, some of the endings on this list are more impactful than others, and deserve tears as part of the healing process. That said, I think that remembering the experience or the person lost with smile, and gratitude for the experience, helps us move forward in away that allows us to remain open to new people and experiences yet to come. What a shame it would be to close ourselves off to trying new things or getting close to people because we are afraid of the tears that may come with loss.
Dr. Seuss’s quote also reminds me that I don’t have to wait until something is over to smile about it. I can do so even while it’s happening. 😊
There are plenty of things in life that we have no control over. For example, the weather, the economy, genetics, and most every other person on the planet, just to name a few. However, there are a number of variables in life that we do have control over.
Of those variables, the lever of control we have is choice. We can choose our responses, our behavior, our outlook, the words we use, the course we chart for our life.
This knowledge should be a constant reminder to us to make wise choices. The choices we make today impacts the quality of our tomorrows.
Last week was the first week since January 2013 that I haven’t made a blog post. I’d like to say it was because we were busy traveling last weekend, but I’ve traveled many times since 2013 and have still created a weekly blog post. The simple excuse is, I just forgot.
Beyond just forgetting, the real reason it didn’t get posted was because I didn’t write, “Post blog” on my list of To-Do items.
I find that when I have a lot of things going on, I need a list to help me keep track of the tasks I need to complete. Much like a grocery list, a task list helps me ensure that I don’t forget anything important I’m supposed to do. More importantly, a task list frees up my mental capacity from having to remember to do something. Once it’s on my list, I don’t have to spend any energy remembering to do it, because the list will remember for me.
I heard a quote once that said, “Our mind are great places for having ideas, but they’re a horrible place for storing them.” I totally agree! Whether paper or digital, lists are great places for remembering things like:
- Groceries to buy at the store
- Chores you need to complete
- Things you need to pack for a trip
- Books you want to read
- Destinations you like to visit
- People you need to contact
- Appointments and meetings you have during the day
The next time you have a number of things to remember, instead of keeping them in your head, consider making a list. Not only will a list help you remember what you need to do, it’s fun to cross completed items off the list!
I currently serve on our church board, where our pastor has us reading “Emotionally Healthy Discipleship”, in order to help us develop as a team as we lead our church. I’m thankful we have a pastor that is intentional about growing the church’s staff and leadership.
One item that really stood out as I was reading this week was a section about how our experiences impact our mindset and how that influences how we make decisions. Nothing new there, right? We all know our experiences influence our decisions, but for some reason, this reality landed on me with an eye-opening air of newness this time.
As I was reading a case study of a church board making a decision, and how each member was making their decisions based on their past experience, I immediately thought of this scenario in the context of our own church board.
We, as a board, have been through the decision-making process many times. However, now I have a new perspective on how others’ decisions might be influenced by a completely different set of experiences than I have had, and vice versa. Every person on our board (or any team for that matter) will filter their decisions through their own experience, just like me.
This reminds me that when someone comes to a different conclusion or decision than me, it’s not because they’re necessarily opposed to my view, but rather they are deciding based on their experience. It also reminds me to ask questions to help understand why they came to that decision.
I’m thankful for the broader perspective this simple reminder offers.
“There is no shortcut. There is no hack. There’s only one way, so get after it.”
~ Jocko Willink – “Discipline Equals Freedom”
Within the context of our goals, there is a gap between where we are currently and where we want to go. And usually, the bigger the outcome we’re striving for, the bigger the gap that exists. While there is no shortcut to bridging that gap, there is a simple remedy to get us to the other side. That is to take the first step today.
We’d never sit in our car on one side of a bridge with the transmission in park, hoping that we could somehow make it to the other side. In order to cross the bridge, we put the car in gear, step on the accelerator and start moving across the bridge to the other side.
It’s no different with our goals. Sure, we can sit on our current side of the gap we need to cross and talk about how much we want to be on the other side, but unless we take steps to move toward our goal, we’ll never make progress at bridging the gap and reaching the other side. At some point we have to take the actions that will cause us to bridge that gap.
Is there anything you’d like to achieve that you’ve been hesitating on starting, or have even just been lazy about starting? If so, determine what that first step you need to take is and do it today. Then tomorrow, repeat the process and take the next step. Repeat this process daily, until you find yourself on the other side of the gap.
Although the steps might not be easy, the process is, and it involves taking the first step and doing the work.
It’s time to go! The other side awaits.