“The more you love in life, the more life has to offer.” ~ Lee (my bass instructor)
During a bass lesson this week with my instructor Lee, he mentioned how limiting your exposure to only one specific type of music holds you back from new perspectives and ideas that can be applied to your own music style. His example made a lot of sense. If I only listen to say, country music (which I happen to like) then I will only experience music through that lens. My playing will come to only sound like what I hear in country songs, and I won’t have the opportunity to learn and apply ideas from other music genres. Lee’s comment resonated with me, not only in the musical context, but in the larger context of a life well lived.
Imagine for a minute that the only food you absolutely loved was pizza. Now imagine that you ate pizza as often as you could because you loved it so much, but when you couldn’t have pizza, you were disappointed in the alternative. Yes, I know there are a lot of different varieties of pizza toppings to keep interesting for a long time, but how limiting to think that of all the food choices available to you, that you would be disappointed with anything that wasn’t the single food you loved.
I think we can also be narrow in our love for a number of things beyond food and music, such as
Areas of interest
Types of books
Topics of conversation
How we use our gifts and talents
How we spend our time
Seasons of the calendar
Seasons of life
Consider your capacity to love broadly in the topics listed above or others you’re thinking of that weren’t on the list. The more that we love, be it people places or things, the more opportunities we have for our lives to intersect with those things we love. I for one, am eager to live a life full of intersections with the things I love.
Gyms in Oregon have been closed due to COVID-19 restrictions since sometime in November. This has been disappointing because for years, I’ve been in the habit of going to the gym to exercise first thing every morning. It’s a nice way to start my mornings and stets a positive tone for the rest of the day.
Unfortunately, I hadn’t found a substitute for my morning gym routine, other than walking a few times a day. However, with all the emotionally heavy events that occurred in the US in December and January, I knew that I had to come up with a solution.
Since I don’t have a bunch of weights and exercise equipment at home, I started looking for options that use your body weight as resistance. Fortunately, there are plenty of possibilities, so I created an exercise plan and, starting this week, have been back in the habit of exercising first thing in the morning! I’ve enjoyed being back in the habit, and know it will be a good alternative until the gyms finally reopen.
Although it took me long enough, I’m thankful I finally caused something to happen to get me back in an exercise routine, instead of sitting around waiting for someone ese to decide it’s time to reopen the gyms in Oregon.
If there’s something you want or need, don’t sit and wait for someone else to make it happen for you. Decide what action YOU need to take to bring it about, and then take that action!
Why should we wait on someone else’s timeline when we can decide to create our own?
2021 looks promising, although it did start off a little bumpy. Since we’ll soon be getting back to life that includes more events and interactions with others, it’s important to remember that we are the ones who decide what events we allow on our calendars.
When you’re considering scheduling an event, make sure you’re not doing it out of a false sense of obligation, or because you feel you can’t say, “No” to something you really have no interest in doing.
I would argue that our time is more valuable than money, because we can always get more money. That’s is something we can’t do with time. The limit on a day is 24 hours, we can’t get more. The only choice we have is how we’ll spend the finite amount of time we’ve been given. Therefore, we need to make sure that it is our priorities that fill our calendars in 2021, not someone elses.
The amount of information we’re confronted with every day is amazing. So many sources, figures, and organizations are vying to influence our thinking and shape our beliefs. Therefore, it is imperative, in the midst of all this information, that we continually scrutinize what we hear by asking ourselves, “Is this true?”.
Our brain is the greatest super computers ever designed, and each of us is blessed to be in possession of one, free and clear. With it, we can receive input, think critically about that input, and discern whether or not it’s true. With this brain we can question, investigate, explore, and again, discern truth. In my opinion, since we are in possession of such a remarkable and powerful tool as our brains, it is incumbent on us to use them.
Why would we allow someone else to spoon feed us their own thoughts and ideas without engaging our brains in some critical thinking to determine whether or not what they’re saying is actually true? Why should we be so quick to disengage our own super computer brains in favor allowing someone else to “program”, if not poison them, with untruths? To me, that seems not only irresponsible, but potentially dangerous. Taken to it’s extreme, as we’ve seen in the US this week, it can even be criminal.
Let’s make sure that we’re taking full advantage of the brains we’ve been blessed with. Let’s use them to wisely discern the information we’re bombarded with, to ensure that our actions and beliefs are indeed based on truth.
I’ve been teaching an adult Sunday school class at our church for about 12 years. Actually, I’m more of a discussion facilitator than an actual teacher or instructor. I prefer this role as facilitator, because I’ve noticed that the best learning in class occurs when the participants share their knowledge and we seek answers and explore the Bible together. As a facilitator, I simply bring interesting information about the topic we’re studying and encourage others to ask question and share any insight they might have.
If I approach a Sunday school class as the teacher, it feels like I need to have all the answers and have a lesson plan figured out that details everything we’ll discuss during the class. I don’t like that approach because it doesn’t leave room for questions an exploration. If I’m seen as the teacher, the class feels more like a lecture, where I’m imparting knowledge to the rest of the class while they sit quietly and listen. This approach would be boring to me! While I’ve got some knowledge on the topic, I also have lots of questions that I’d like to ask. If I’m the teacher, there’s a lid on the class that only goes as far as my knowledge and understanding.
I much prefer to leverage the collective intelligence of the class. The people who attend regularly spend time in the Bible, so they are very familiar with it. They’re also eager to learn more, which causes them to read it with the purpose of gaining a greater understanding of what it says.
Having a forum where we can learn together, ask questions and share our knowledge has sparked numerous conversations (as well as opportunities to learn) that would not have occurred if I were the teacher, simply giving a one-way lecture. Our class works much better when we all have the opportunity to share the role as teacher.
I think it’s exciting to approach life as a facilitator as well. It’s fun to encourage others to share what they know about a topic and to hear, and learn from, experiences they’ve have had. Most people are willing to share what they know; they often just need someone to invite them to do so.
With COIVD-related restrictions and choices an omnipresent reality of the 2020 holiday season, it’s easy to become frustrated by how abnormal everything is this year. While it’s true that things look different this year, I want to encourage you that this is not how Christmas, or any other holiday, will look forever more. Remember that this current state is indeed temporary. Before we know it, we will be celebrating holidays with family and friends again.
My pastor signs all his emails with a phrase that I think is especially fitting for this year, “Believing the best is yet to come”. I think that true. We only have to be willing to cast our gaze beyond what’s happening today.
I’m currently reading a book about the SR-71 reconnaissance aircraft. It was developed in the 60s and was way ahead of its time, with regards to engineering and performance. This plane could travel at altitudes of 80,000 feet with a speed greater than Mach 3 (3X the speed of sound). Were it in service today, it would still be ahead of it’s time and considered futuristic.
As I was reading a chapter last night about the people involved in the design stage of the SR-71, I was impressed how all these people came together and gave the best of their abilities to bring this aircraft from an idea to a reality. The technology to build an SR-71 didn’t exist, so they had to figure it out as they went. When you consider all the obstacles, it’s an amazing feat that the SR-71 became a reality.
Imagine if the members of this group didn’t give the best they were capable of. Suppose people on the team just gave minimal effort that was far below their intellectual capacity. If that were the case, the SR-71 would have fallen far short of the requirements presented to the team. Even more likely, this project would have been canceled and considered an impossible feat, if not an outright failure. The difference was the people on the team collectively gave their best.
While we my not be part of a team designing supersonic reconnaissance aircraft, we are all a part of some team where we have an opportunity to give our best effort. That team may consist of a family, a group of co-workers, a band, a sports team, or any other group of people brought together to achieve a common goal. Regardless of the type of team we’re on, the members of the team counting on us to give our best. In my opinion, if we’re willing to be on a team, we should also be willing to bring the best effort we’re capable of.
So why should we bother to bring our best effort? There a several good answers to this question, but for me, there is one reason that stands above all others. During the Christmas season, I’m again reminded that God gave His best for me in his son Jesus. Out of gratitude, how could I offer anything less than my best back to Him?
“But look at you, with the gift of memory. You can time travel to the good stuff just by closing your eyes & breathing.” Lin-Manuel Miranda – “Gmorning, Gnight!: Little Pep Talks for Me & You”
I’m amazed at the number of memories each of us can carry between our ears. What’s more amazing, is how quickly we can recall our favorite memories. Within nanoseconds, we can be transported to an event, a person, or a place in time. Lin-Manuel is right, our memories are indeed a form of time travel.
I think the recalling of memories is best done in the in the company of others with the same shared experience. To time travel with others via fond memories is a great blessing. The only thing more pleasing than recalling fond memories, is creating what will become fond memories with others.
Let’s make sure that as we’re traveling through life, were constantly doing both: recalling our fondest memories in the company of others, and creating some new ones as well.
Last week my wife and I spent some time at the beach in Bandon Oregon. The weather was unseasonably sunny warm for the Oregon coast in late November. It was beautiful!
While in Bandon, we spent a lot of time walking on the beach. One thing to be mindful of at the beach is the tide. When the tide is out, there is so much to see and so much more beach available to walk on. However, when the tide comes in, what’s available to explore and the volume of beach to walk on is significantly diminished. We experienced that during high tide, when parts of the shoreline we walked during low tide were no longer accessible once the tide came in. Not to worry. We simply looked at our options, adjusted our high-tide walk and had a great time.
Our experience with the tides in Bandon made me think how we often have high tides in our lives; when things change and what was once a normal part of our life is no longer available. Sometimes these high tides are expected. Other times they’re not. Regardless, we get to choose how we respond to them. We can be angry and complain about what’s not available, or we can look with gratitude at what we still have available to us, make adjustments, and move forward.
That’s great news, because even when the tide comes in (as my recent walk on the beach reminded me) there are still plenty of options available to us. We just need to see them.
I like Thanksgiving. It’s a fun time of year, the sights and smells of the holiday are great, plus it’s a fun time to get together with people we’re thankful for. This year’s holidays will likely be very different than holidays past for many people.
While that may be frustrating, I think it’s important not to spend too much time lamenting what we don’t have this year, but rather focus on what we still do have. In addition, it would help us to begin to eager look ahead to the holidays yet to come that won’t be impacted by a global pandemic.
Those days are coming. We just need to look past today to see them.